The Bond Of Friendship!!!

       
We care, we fight, we rejoice, we smile , we’re angry sometimes but we know that they are one of our choices. Yes! They’re our friends. And this is what friendship is made up of, some special surprises, mixed emotions, teasing them, playing together, laughing and finally smiling while we remember all these wonderful memories. It is sometimes important to take your stand on any topic while going through a discussion but it is truly worthless to make it an issue, fight over it and simply lose your good friends just because of your ego!

Well according to me whenever there is such a situation where things heat up just take a second and think for a while that “Is it a big deal??”. Yap! “Is it a big deal fighting over some nonsense topic it could be science, politics, news or any event or it could be anything where you have to bear the loss of losing a friend even if you win the argument”. If you call it winning I must tell you that it was the biggest act of foolishness you could have done in your life.

Friends! We are not here to cry. We’re not here to fight. We’re not here to blame. We’re not here to be angry or miserable. But we’re here to find the purpose of our life and these are the things that keep pulling us down in life. On the other hand if we start living life enjoying it with peace and harmony, forgiving people not because they are good coz we are good, We’ll be seeing that life was always wonderful. And in fact, everyone here is good. It’s the time and the circumstances that make us feel they are bad. It’s very simple ‘The day we start seeing things from the other person’s perspective and just try to feel a bit of what they feel’ our life will change drastically.

Whenever you feel awkward about someone just start remembering those wonderful moments you spent with them or just write down their qualities which they have. Even if you’re going through some tough times, you’ll have to keep faith that all will turn well again and be the first one to shake hands throwing your ego aside and reunite. Because they are the ones after your parents who make your life really wonderful and give you those awesome moments due to which you feel glad that you are lucky  to have such wonderful people in your life!!!!!
-GAUTAM RAJESH SHELLEY